In 39 of those stories, a committed, most often married, heterosexual couple gets it on, and whether they're alone or, more likely, some hot stud or sex kitten has joined them, the sex reinforces the man and woman's relationship with each other. There are 69 stories in "Letters to Penthouse XIX" (get it?). I would go so far as to say that, contextualized, the majority of the "reader" encounters in "Letters" amounts, shockingly, to an affirmation of family values. What is most interesting about "Letters to Penthouse XIX" is that the magazine's readers, apparently, haven't changed much either. America's definition of that edge, though, has changed radically Penthouse's really hasn't. It's been a humbling fall for Penthouse, which burst on the scene 40 years ago, a Playboy imitation that dallied on the edge of kink. The impact has devastated Penthouse, whose publisher filed for Chapter 11 last summer, and many bet on a complete overhaul by a new owner.
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Time has passed since the Penthouse Forum offered cutting-edge titillation 384 pages of sucking and fucking, with a smattering of edgier nastiness, really isn't all that in an era of the Super Bowl flash - or, more important, the Internet, where a video of a famous hotel heiress is available for quick download for $50, and porn bloggers explore predicaments Penthouse readers could never imagine. The 19th collection of letters from Penthouse "readers" (that is, actual readers and the editors who imitate them), culled from the fabled Forum section of the magazine, delivers a bit of everything for the average libido: fellatio, cunnilingus, vaginal sex, anal sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, dominance, toys, group sex, in the home, in the office, in the car, on the beach, in the bleachers. Here's another argument: there's some pretty interesting research on female arousal that jives with my experience and says adding expectations to fulfill can seriously put on the sexual arousal "brakes."Letters to Penthouse XIX" is shocking. "Hotspousing" sounds like Sriracha or firefighting, so I would propose "hotmating"-both mates feeling hotter as the result of some "mating competition" frisson. And that's not what it feels like at all. So: can we change the language, please? "Hotwifing" makes him the agent and purpose of my sexual experiences. And I would like to think that that symmetry is the result of the 18 years of effort we've put into good communication and getting over cultural hang ups.
But the inverse is true too: I have the impulse to claim him, I make him tell me what he's done and thought, and we share the thrill. He has the impulse to "claim" me before and after I like the thrill of his making me tell him what I've done and thought.
My spouse gets off on me getting excited for a potential date. I write to take issue with the term "hotwifing" as inaccurate and stuck in antifeminist/heteronormative thinking. And we are getting off on each other and the reality and possibility of sleeping with others, FWB and strangers. Following a seven year "dormancy" of our non-monogamous shenanigans (and, largely, our own marital sex life), spring has sprung. Pre-kids, we each did some fooling around/sleeping with friends, separately and together, exploring kinks along the way. I've been with my husband 16 years, married for eight, open the whole time (starting as an idealistic long distance college kid relationship, we placed our earnest emphasis on trust, honesty and loyalty over monogamy-everything since has flowed from that).
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